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I’m new to piefed. I was a part of the Reddit migration originally. Since then, I really enjoyed the conversations.

I’m a behavior therapist by day. Otherwise a bit of an introvert/gamer. I’m always up for a conversation. Unless I’m asleep, which is earlier and earlier these days.

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  • So for me when I was dating it was that people were never interested in me as a person, for a variety of reasons.

    So for example a lot of people my age have children and look for a mother figure. Or think mothers themselves are not for serious companionship.

    Or looking for what I provide as a service (free therapy).

    Or it’s a money thing.

    Eventually it went from annoying to exhausting. Well, it was not adding anything to my life so why bother?



  • sparkles@piefed.ziptoAsklemmy@lemmy.mlWould you try a FOSS dating app?
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    6 days ago

    Unlikely. I have always found dating sites pretty uncomfortable.

    Even in the best scenarios, there were never any people who shared my interests. Now I’m older/kinda exhausted of it. :3

    If I was younger and still trying, I imagine I would want something that felt less like being in a display case, visually. Maybe also making people who didn’t share any of my values or interests unable to swipe.