I had a discussion recently with someone about this. Since we don’t really celebrated our birthdays we weren’t sure what’s “normal “.

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    6 months ago

    If they’re close friends and family I definitely expect them to remember. It’s a good indicator of who I can trust in my life as well, those who usually remember just also happen to be on the trustworthy list.

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        6 months ago

        For me it correlates so yes. I’m not saying one is necessarily caused by the other.

        Conversely, I set up birthday reminders for the people I care about.

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        6 months ago

        Everyone has smart phones and already adds people’s phone numbers in their contacts. Just add their birthdays as well and you will be reminded. If you don’t, you don’t care.