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VirusMaster3073@lemmy.world to Asklemmy@lemmy.ml · 8 months ago

What's the biggest red flag/warning sign you have seen at someone's wedding?

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What's the biggest red flag/warning sign you have seen at someone's wedding?

VirusMaster3073@lemmy.world to Asklemmy@lemmy.ml · 8 months ago
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      While I agree that seems absurd, people can have more than black and white views outside of American politics and Reddit, which I hope lemmy has. There must be some cops that want to do better, though I barely would believe them.

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        There must be some cops that want to do better

        I don’t think they’d have thin blue line decor though…

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          Delusional cop and self hating black person? Idk. What I don’t get even more is black people choosing to become cops

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            See: Clarence Thomas

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      Have to ask are they still married?

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        Yep. And adopted a white baby. Like, intentionally, specifically a white baby.

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          Well at least they are still married.

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            Considering the insanely high domestic abuse rate among police officers, I wouldn’t be so sure about that.

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              Is there a higher rate?

              Yes.

              Does that mean there IS domestic abuse in that marriage? No. Should we be implying there is? No

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                  So there is zero chance that he might be a good person? Zero chance that he might care about the law? That’s a bit of a narrow minded view point.

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