This is a throw away account, in case I end up working with someone that reads this post.

I’ve been lurking on this community with my main account for a few months now. I have ideas on what I’d like to self-host but between my ADHD, perfectionism, and anxiety, I’m frozen.

I need help selecting and implementing an initial set up. I’m not an IT professional but I’m a reasonably advanced user, so I’m confident I can do the setup work and ongoing management myself. I just need someone to:

  1. Discuss the big picture of what’s involved in self-hosting and help fill in gaps in my understanding;
  2. Help me decide on the best initial setup for my needs and skill level;
  3. Hold my hand during the setup phase and make sure I’m not doing anything stupid;
  4. Ideally be available long term for the occassional question.

I’m willing to pay a fair hourly rate for this assistance. If someone in this community is interested, please dm me. You might want to use a throw away for that too, assuming this work can’t be done anonymously.

Alternatively, any suggestions for good websites to find a consultant, and what skills I should be looking for, would also be greatly appreciated.

Thank you for reading. Wishing you all the best for 2026.

Edit: I appreciate all the offers for free help on this forum.

I perhaps didn’t explain well enough that what I really need is a knowledgeable coach, who can get me moving and provide guidance. I bought the Official Pi-hole Raspberry Pi 4 Kit a few months ago and it’s still sitting on my desk gathering dust. Embarrassing but true.

  • irmadlad@lemmy.worldEnglish
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    2 hours ago

    Since you are just starting out, I will pass along some advice that has been invaluable to me, and that is to take notes. I used to work for a firm in a non related field, but the rule was ‘If you didn’t write it down, it didn’t happen’ and that has carried over into my personal life. Write it all down. At the very least, you will have a bread crumb trail back to where you started if the wheels fall off. Notes can also help others help you by seeing the steps you have already taken.

    Also, don’t be under the delusion that those of us here woke up one morning, spun up a server and apps, and everything from then on was jippity jippity. For me it’s a process of:

    Reading/asking --> doing/trying/documenting --> screwing it up --> rinse/repeat ad nauseam with much colorful language thrown in between, until I finally get it.

    I wish you the very best in your endeavors, and I look forward to hearing of your selfhosting exploits.