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Cake day: June 22nd, 2023

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  • IDK, maybe, I might be one of those guys and didn’t really notice before.
    I don’t believe I do this differently around women vs men.
    I’m often too busy in my own head to pay much attention. So, if your body language isn’t sketchy like drunk or overly aggressive, odds are I’ve zoned out and you didn’t register much.

    Anyway, I’m a generally silent walker.
    If I’m not paying attention, I might end up sneaking up on someone without meaning to, which can then startle them or spook them. Like, I spook my cat often enough and they’re the actual predators.

    But yea, late at night, I think I might subconsciously make myself known ahead of time just as a simple courtesy.
    I’d rather not find out whether anyone’s more of a fight/flight person when they finally notice me. ¯\_(ツ)_/¯

    Me? I’m the throat clearing guy. Hi. Ahem.

    PS: I have 20+ years experience of throat clearing. Yes I’ve seen doctors, they didn’t find anything other than yea we can see inflammation in your vocal chords, no there’s nothing we can do, just stop doing it. That or prescribe random shit that actually fucks up other basic bodily functions and create actual problems.

    Anyway, I’m sorry if it’s weird.





  • Warrantied drives still fail, they just happen to ship you a replacement.

    Commercial drive trashing solutions are basically a smaller, fancier version of the mechanism in a log splitter.
    You could probably rig a sketchy drive wedge/bending thing with a pump jack rather easily.
    Wear PPE.

    The odds of someone taking a failed drive and transplanting the platters to a working drive is pretty low to begin with.

    Me? I don’t have tons of drives to destroy, so I just unscrew the thing, get the platters out and smash those.









  • So, the SD Association is absolutely fucking insane when it comes to giving labels to literally anything.

    The Steam Deck supports UHS-1 microSD cards.
    That’s the name of the bus. There’salso UHS-2 and UHS-3, but they’re backwards compatible with UHS-1, so that’s whatever.

    Speeds…
    Some cards used speed “classes”, like Class 10…
    There’s also U1 or U3 speeds (which is a speed rating independent of the bus. (A U3 cards is probably a UHS-1 card.
    Some have a speed rated with a V, like V10, V30, etc.
    They often have multiple labels too.
    These can all be used to label the speed of a UHS-1 card:
    UHS Speed Class

    • U1: 10 MB/s minimum write speed.
    • U3: 30 MB/s minimum write speed.

    Video Speed Class

    • V6: 6 MB/s minimum write speed.
    • V10: 10 MB/s minimum write speed.
    • V30: 30 MB/s minimum write speed.
    • V60: 60 MB/s minimum write speed.
    • V90: 90 MB/s minimum write speed.

    Class 10

    • Class 10: 10 MB/s minimum write speed (legacy).

    Anyway, U3 is basically the same as a V30.
    U3/V30 would be the minimum I’d get for the Deck. Price being the deciding factor for the rest.
    I don’t really care if the card ever fails, so brand was (mostly) irrelevant in my choice.


  • The shopping/dressing part, imho, is whatever, maybe even cute.
    Kids being wary of parental embarrassment is as old as time.

    That last message though is really the big one: how to behave and what to say.

    Disclaimer: I know nothing about your daughter, the following isn’t meant as advice.

    On one hand, she wants you to be part of this.
    On the other hand, it seems like covering up who you are is (mostly?) to cover up who poeple there might think she is?
    It’s like she’s worried that people there will think she doesn’t belong if it is made evident that you don’t. I think she’s worried about not fitting in herself and you bringing attention to that fact.
    Asking you to play a role is kinda wack… but then it may be that she’s been thinking all this time that she has to be playing the part too. Idk if cute or sad or both. Impostor syndrome in a relationship maybe, idk.

    Honey, just hire actors at this point.

    Me? I’d go all in.
    Full-on wizard staff and pipe, or the old monopoly monocle look.
    If I’m about to dress up and play a role, I might as well play as someone from the wait staff or go all out medieval bourgeois and convince people I’m a noble from a far off land that no one there has heard about, like Earl of Canada.

    Sorry we’re late, customs was being picky about sword lengths and I had to leave another trebuchet to one of them meddlesome varlets.
    A den of savages.
    We couldn’t find the stables, my dear, if you’d be so kind as to have one of your footmen help the stable boy.