When I used to play poker at a bar, I always got cokes which were always given to me for free. They never cared, they make money on average behavior, not what one guy does once a week.

“Be sure to drink your ovaltine” vibes

First read, I thought this was a word salad stroke joke. Took me a few reads but, even if it’s off putting, it is english.

I agree kind of. You say something in private, it can still be blabbed about town. It’s a violation of whatever relationship you had but is what it is. You dm someone same deal, but companies want to distance themselves from any avenue of attack, so dm is better. Also we 100% should count on instances to fold to legal pressure, they are people running it and probably don’t have big bank rolls.

and inversely proportional to how tolerant they are to extreme views… just to be balanced

Elbowed her in the face while having first sexy time. Some other fumbling involved and she later told me “well that was the funniest sex I ever had”. It didn’t bother me at all at the time but I look back on it often and think, how did that not hit harder?