Maple Engineer

59 yo man with ASD with a 20 yo daughter with ASD.

We don’t perceive or express emotions the way normies do. We don’t understand subtle social clues or hints. It’s easier for us if you just tell us what you are thinking. My wife is moody and passive aggressive which I just don’t understand. If you’re happy, tell her. If you’re mad, tell her. If you’re upset with her, deal with it.

If she is peopled out give her space.

If she’s with you it’s because she wants to be. She has learned to mask which can make her seem cold or indifferent. She’s just trying to act in a way that won’t cause a negative reaction that she has witnessed in the past.

I do that. When I’m dealing with someone new who I find attractive I am extremely flat bordering on cold. I have misinterpreted what I thought were hints or suggestions in the past so I assume that everything that might be a hint or a suggestion is not and play everything neutral casual. I’ve been told by women that I’m emotionally stupid as a result.

Make her feel safe telling you what she wants. If she tells you she wants something do it if you can. If you can’t, don’t get emotion, just explain that you can’t but ask her to ask about the next thing. Make her feel safe asking you for things.

If you can learn to communicate with her Aspies are a lot of fun. I have a standard speech that I give to everyone I meet that I might be interested in being more than casual acquaintances with that explains how I act and how to communicate with me. I had someone once ask, “So I can ask you anything and you will say, ‘yes’ or, ‘no’ and if you say, ‘no’ it won’t change anything?” Yes. “Like what can I ask?” Do you want to have coffee? Can I join your Minecraft realm? Can I sit on your face? “Can I sit in your face?” Yes. “That’s cool.”

We find dealing with normies who never just come out and say what they want and who hint and suggest and brood exhausting. When you get two of us together shit happens.

I hope this helps.

EDIT: I should proofread. Fucking racoons.

Maybe there aren’t any who aren’t pedophiles?

Because wealthy and powerful degenerates on both sides of the aisle are on the list.

The fact that 70 million Americans voted for a christofascist dictatorship suggests not.

I’ve been around long enough that I recognize bad faith and fallacious arguments, pedantism, and particularly expressions of Danth’s Law and choose not to take the bait. I stay on message which was that it was obvious to the UK who their true and trustworthy friends were (for example Canada which joined the Second World War 9 days after its outbreak and sent young men to fight to stop the spread of fascism and defend Britain) and weren’t (for example the US which sat on its hands for 829 days while Europe burned) as it should be today. It should be horrifying (but not at all surprising) to the UK, and to the rest of the free world, to see that fascism has taken hold in the US.

829 days. Canada was there for 820 of those 829 days.

829 days.

For 829 days the US sat and watched.

Canada, 9 days.

US, 829 days.

For those 820 days the rest of the world, including Canada, was sending its young men to fight and die for freedom.

The US sat and watched.

Canada entered the was 9 days after it started. The US entered the war 820 days later.

Canada went and fought while the US sat and watched.

Cherry picked? 9 days versus 829 days. Cherry pick my ass.

Then why did it take 9 days?

Bombed into it.

Just a reminder that it took the US years to join the Second World War while the UK was pounded by the Nazis. Canada joined the war nine days after it began. Remember who your friends are. The US isn’t anyone’s friend but it’s own.

I have always found that being good at it is a very good way to be invited back. It’s the least gay thing that you can do.

Are these the same guys that think that eating pussy makes you gay?

It’s no fucking wonder they’re lonely.

Have they tried not being assholes?

It has nothing to do with his being an abject failure as a CEO. Nope. Nothing at all.

Then smart would be my preference.

And yet, when surveyed, women express a definite preference. (lol, am I doing this right?)

Smart with a top 1% cock.