

It’s probably time to leave reddit; even if you do manage to get your accounts back.
As a former mod of /r/Genderqueer I can say they’ve been terminally enshittifying for a while now; and have gone full AI rampage to eliminate human mods because they get accused of bias constantly. It doesn’t help that some mods are legitimately bad too; some of the stories I could tell you from when I was in private mod-only meta-reddit communities would curl your toes. Even I wasn’t without my biases; but I had the interest of my community at heart…which, as you know, nonbinary and genderqueer people are very vulnerable to abuse and harrassment.
It’s time to step off the reddit mothership, and don’t bother looking back unless you must. Tools like redlib can at least help you view reddit posts still, anonymously even if you can’t comment.
I’ve been running my own personal Redlib instance locally using WSL2, Docker and Podman. It’s been invaluable in ensuring I can still read things I need to read.




I don’t think any alternatives exist that are easily viable.
Most require you to buy specific phones and flash the OS or buy them from a specific supplier who pre-images them.
Carrier compatibility is also a major issue if you’re in any country with a cellular network requiring that you use VoLTE services in general…these third party OSes can’t always get at the vendor binary blobs or simply won’t include them because legal and privacy preserving reasons.
You may have some luck with GrapheneOS or maybe LineageOS but those are the only mainstream “alternates” to Android that exist; which actually have a decent chance of working well and can usually be installed to a fair number of different devices; as long as you can unlock their bootloaders and root them day one.