I can’t see down votes so I have nothing to lose!

Surrender and/or nade the commissar tent?

my buddies ceo only comes In on Fridays but complains if anyone uses more than 1 work from home day.

Like bruh

If you get approval from a countrty then “We be privatieers” applies.

Really hammered home the danger of tech bros.

Prey is one of the best games I ever played.

Better than committing another soul to the same fate.

Wtf is code?

I tried looking it up and and didn’t find anything What’s the reference?

Would carbon fiber be better than abs?

And the world gets better.

I don’t think the audience that needs to hear this message can read.

I think we need to educate people that patriarchy is not about horses! That normally turns them off to it.

I’m scared they gonna a pull some Bible crap and force women to marry rapists.

man that hurts

I know your right with what you wrote.

It was that level of persistence I got my partner in the first place but if there is no “cure” then i should apply it to fix myself to match? I lack the imagination to do something that isn’t cheating or internet since I’m too scared to try mind altering medication. I’m real curious what pro has to say. I have nothing to lose…probably.

What do I even describe this to a therapist as? My partner doesn’t want say they are asexual but all the signs are there. Help me be cool with it when I’m the literal opposite end of the spectrum? I feel if I stop trying, then that’s me giving up on her.

Yeah basically what you wrote is accurate. No therapy though. She won’t take it. I asked several times.

I think the crux of issue is a blame myself for all this. I get told no " it’s not you, it’s me" but I still feel like a failure of a partner.

Not OP case but 2 decades later with no change is demoralizing.

Nothing has worked consistently.

Does she enjoy it? sometimes but It’s like taking out the trash. 0 sex again would have zero impact. Liquor helps but only drinks at restaurants and only with a meal. So 99% of the time, just too full to make use of it. Suspected the bc but she was off them for a few years, no change. No medication either. Lost weight 0 change. In college, we thought it was Stress levels but it’s lower now with no change.

Now no cuddles or daily massages would be an issue for her. Withhold for a few days and watch that blow up.

It’s always been a chasm in the relationship.