I think it actually goes further than that. They’re trying to protect themselves from being liable in the event that someone uses Lemmy to actually plan a crime with the intent of not being found guilty by also planning a jury nullification. And the wording doesn’t reflect that.
TOS’s usually have a legal team go over them to prevent such eventualities. Lemmy as a whole does not really necessarily have this option and that’s at least part of the problem here. The owners and administrators have to cover the eventualities of user interaction with the site. Since this is the case, the owners and admins are using at best a layman’s understanding of the law (potentially), to cover themselves and at the same time not taking into account other factors (such as jury nullification not being a part of the laws of those jurisdictions at all).
While it is their right to do so as owners of the site, they may be in violation of the rights of other people and since they operate a site with multiple jurisdictions and that may be used by users in other countries, it is perfectly okay for the users to be upset about these changes and do with that information what they will, including making complaints about changes and discussions of changes.
Do things get better without discussion? Is that something you’ve experienced?