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  • Mastodon doesn’t do it for me, most of what I find interesting isn’t really… there yet.
    So my mains are Instagram > Discord > Lemmy > Reddit
    In that order I’d say.
    Instagram is just the most “personal” social network. I watch my friends’ stories, share some of my own here and there… It’s close to how we used facebook back when it wasn’t a cesspit of ads and “pages”.
    Discord is where I keep in direct contact with most of my friends, besides like messengers. Reddit is for specific problem solving and random hobby content.
    Lemmy is filling the same niche but I just scroll it more than I do reddit for news, articles, hobby stuff…








  • I’m really convinced everyone in my life really sees me as a full time chore

    I can all but guarantee you’re the only one in your life who thinks that. I know someone a little bit like that (thinking everyone is just being nice when they’re actually annoyed) and it’s steady work to make them feel loved.

    We don’t do that shit because we have to - we don’t - we do it out of real love.

    Suicidal thoughts aren’t a scheme, you didn’t chose to feel this way. Which means you’re not an abuser for feeling them.

    The rest if your paragraph goes a bit off the rails, not sure how literal you mean it though.

    There’s no Truman Show, no psyop, no great charade.
    What people do in real life when they hate someone is they stop engaging. If any of your friends got tired of you you’d notice. They’d disappear from your circles.

    Lastly, please take care of yourself.

    You seem aware of your struggles, so if you are in a position able to seek help please do so. No, you’re not wasting anyone’s time, it’s ltierally therapists job to figure out how to help people.

    They chose this job, and they will do it as long as necessary.